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Nathan has difficulty trusting adults but slowly starts to open up

It was Nathan’s second stay with us here in the Crisis Program. Nathan’s first stay was only a few days long, so the staff did not get an opportunity to get to know him well nor did he have much time to build a relationship with staff. Nathan’s second stay had not gotten off on the best foot, as he was struggling with being open to staff and communicating in a respectful manner. Our team worked hard to build a relationship with Nathan and learn more about his background. Staff discovered that Nathan had lived independently from an early age, and he had very little family support to rely on. Nathan was used to fending for himself and not being able to rely on adults in his life for support.

One morning, staff were trying to help Nathan address some outstanding tasks when he became frustrated with the conversation and started yelling, swearing and then walked out of the building. When he returned I met with Nathan to see what was going on for him. Nathan said he was struggling with letting go of his independence, and said he had difficulty relying on staff to help him. I explained that staff are here to support him and provide guidance with the goal of helping him return to independence. While Nathan was reluctant to see staff from that perspective, he agreed he would put in an effort to be more respectful. Nathan expressed it was difficult to trust people he does not know.

Later in the evening when I was finishing up some paperwork, Nathan came into the office and sat down. Nathan started making small talk, laughing and joking with me – something we had yet to see from him. Since that initial conversation, I have noticed that Nathan has started opening up with staff. For some of our youth, the staff at Covenant House are the first adults they’ve been able to trust in a long time. It can often be difficult for them to connect with staff, as they have built walls in their lives to protect themselves due to past experiences. It’s our job as staff to support youth unconditionally, and to recognize that asking for help requires trust and a lot of courage.

Shared by Ashley, Youth Worker at our Crisis Program 

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Former ROP Youth featured on Global BC

Ryder a former youth from our Rights of Passage Program was recently featured on a Global BC cooking segment. Ryder is now a cook with the restaurant Buckstop and he showed viewers how to create stuffed burgers and shared grilling tips. We are so proud of Ryder’s accomplishments!

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Thank you Barber & Co. for helping our youth look their best!

This month we received a generous donation of 1,500 men’s hair products from Barber & Co. They are a full-service barber shop with five locations throughout Vancouver.  What makes their shops stand out from the rest is their expertise in the craft of barbering and their social club atmosphere.  The products we received for our youth are hand crafted locally in Vancouver and made with natural ingredients. They will be given to the youth in the backpacks filled with treats they will get at their Christmas party this coming holiday season. 

Thank you Barber & Co. for making a difference in the lives of the youth we serve!

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We are excited for the 12th Annual Canada Life Charity Softball Invitational this Friday

We are very proud to announce that we are one of the selected charities for the 12th Annual Canada Life Charity Softball Invitational. The tournament is happening this Friday, August 5th and will feature great softball, exciting games, a bouncy castle, face painting, bubble suit sumo demo, and a silent auction. The team at Canada Life has been hard at work raising funds for our young people and if you would like to help them out, you can do so here.

Our team will be on hand for the tournament and will be sharing the fun on social media. Be sure to check it out,  you can follow Covenant House Vancouver on Twitter  @CovenantHouseBC, on Facebook at  Covenant House Vancouver  and on Instagram  @covenanthousebc.

Big thanks to Canada Life and the softball teams for giving a ‘hand up’ to our young people!  

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